One of the worst things that can happen to you is your loved one claiming you hurt them.
Why would anyone want to hurt their loves ones?
One reason I maintained distance from people all my life was because of the fear that I'd hurt them. And fears are scary cos they come true.
There was once this girl who loved a guy so much. She was scared of hurting him so much so that she never exressed her love to him, until one day the guy did himself. They lived happy till one fine day the girl hurt him and he put the blame on her. How fair is that?
The girl never wanted his love, because of the fear that she might hurt him.
People need to learn how to deal with damaged souls. Damaged hearts are damaged beyond repair, especially the ones tainted by love!
Damaged hearts need care and healing.
One advice to broken people would be not to get into any relationship or friendship until you have been healed atleast a bit. Because your new friend or lover will never know what you've been through and trust me you will hurt them. Because the process of healing hurts. No healing is smooth. It hurts. And during the process, it is wise to stay alone.
People may come promising that they would help you heal. But do not allow, for their own good.
Because they will end up getting hurt and as a result,they may abuse you or talk ill of about how you hurt them by not giving them enough love or care, whereas all this while it was YOU who needed all that since you were healing!
Bottomline, people won't understand.
So if you love your loved ones, keep them away while you heal.
Their happiness is important. They wont understand your wounds and pain. Why hurt them cos they can't see your wounds?
Afterall, NOT ALL WOUNDS GUSH BLOOD.
24 April 2016
Why would anyone want to hurt their loves ones?
One reason I maintained distance from people all my life was because of the fear that I'd hurt them. And fears are scary cos they come true.
There was once this girl who loved a guy so much. She was scared of hurting him so much so that she never exressed her love to him, until one day the guy did himself. They lived happy till one fine day the girl hurt him and he put the blame on her. How fair is that?
The girl never wanted his love, because of the fear that she might hurt him.
People need to learn how to deal with damaged souls. Damaged hearts are damaged beyond repair, especially the ones tainted by love!
Damaged hearts need care and healing.
One advice to broken people would be not to get into any relationship or friendship until you have been healed atleast a bit. Because your new friend or lover will never know what you've been through and trust me you will hurt them. Because the process of healing hurts. No healing is smooth. It hurts. And during the process, it is wise to stay alone.
People may come promising that they would help you heal. But do not allow, for their own good.
Because they will end up getting hurt and as a result,they may abuse you or talk ill of about how you hurt them by not giving them enough love or care, whereas all this while it was YOU who needed all that since you were healing!
Bottomline, people won't understand.
So if you love your loved ones, keep them away while you heal.
Their happiness is important. They wont understand your wounds and pain. Why hurt them cos they can't see your wounds?
Afterall, NOT ALL WOUNDS GUSH BLOOD.
24 April 2016
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